What If We Can’t Agree in the Collaborative Process?

FAQs

What Happens if We Can’t Come to an Agreement During the Collaborative Process?

If you cannot reach an agreement during the collaborative family law process, the process will end, and both parties will need to pursue other resolution methods, such as mediation, arbitration, or court litigation. One of the defining features of collaborative law is that, if it fails, the lawyers and neutral experts involved cannot continue to represent or assist the parties in subsequent litigation. This provides a strong incentive for everyone to work toward resolution.


Key Steps if No Agreement Is Reached

1. Termination of the Collaborative Process

  • Either party or both can decide to end the process if they believe no progress is being made.
  • A formal notice of withdrawal is typically provided by the party choosing to terminate the process.

2. Hiring New Lawyers

  • Both parties must hire new lawyers to proceed with litigation or other dispute resolution methods, as collaborative lawyers cannot represent clients in court.
  • This rule ensures all parties remain committed to the collaborative process while it is ongoing.

3. Exploring Alternative Resolution Methods

If collaboration fails, other non-court options may still be available:

  • Mediation: A neutral third party helps negotiate unresolved issues.
  • Arbitration: A binding decision is made by an independent arbitrator.

These methods can still avoid the time, cost, and stress of full litigation.

4. Proceeding to Litigation

  • If no agreement can be reached through alternative methods, the dispute may proceed to court.
  • Court litigation involves filing formal motions and presenting evidence before a judge, who will make binding decisions on unresolved issues.

Common Reasons Collaborative Law May Fail

Lack of Good Faith

  • One party may withhold information, fail to cooperate, or refuse to compromise.

Unrealistic Expectations

  • Either party may have demands that are unreasonable or inconsistent with the law.

Complex or Contentious Issues

  • Highly complex financial disputes or high-conflict parenting arrangements may require the authority of a court.

Power Imbalances

  • Significant disparities in knowledge, resources, or influence between the parties can make fair negotiation difficult.

Advantages of Pursuing Collaborative Law Despite Risk of Failure

  • Transparency: Even if an agreement isn’t reached, the open exchange of information during the process can help streamline subsequent resolution efforts.
  • Respectful Communication: Collaborative sessions often lay the groundwork for more productive discussions in mediation or court.
  • Preservation of Privacy: Confidential discussions in the collaborative process remain private and cannot be used in court unless both parties agree.

Tips to Avoid Collaborative Process Breakdown

Tip Description
Engage Neutral Experts
  • Financial or child specialists can help bridge gaps in understanding and reduce conflicts.
Prioritize Compromise
  • Be prepared to make concessions where reasonable to reach a resolution.
Set Clear Goals
  • Focus on outcomes that prioritize mutual benefits, especially in co-parenting or financial stability.
Maintain Open Communication
  • Transparent and respectful communication is critical for collaborative law success.

Seek Legal Assistance

If you’re concerned about the risks of failing to reach an agreement during the collaborative process, Mills Family Law, experienced Vancouver family lawyers, can help. We can guide you through your options and ensure you are prepared for all potential outcomes. Call us at 778-945-3003 or fill out our web form to get started today.


Related FAQs

For more information, refer to the Family Law Act of BC or consult a family lawyer for tailored advice.